Good day, dear visitors of the blog! A full and happy relationship impossible to imagine without a sex life. Of the satisfaction of the woman in the bed, your emotional balance, and behavior.
But, why in the harmonious, at first glance, relations, sometimes, a lack of Libido? In fact, the reasons for this phenomenon is more than enough. Here plays a big role, such as a physiological factor, and psychological.
Lack of Libido in women – this is not a reason to blame the woman. Today, I will help you to understand why this is so.
During the orgasm, from a physiological point of view, the contraction of the uterus, and the vagina, that the satisfaction of ends. Partner, you can experience during a sexual act one or more orgasms.
If the woman is cold in bed, no sensations, then you call the blonde. In the case of some frigid women, there is an aversion to sexual process.
The Libido refers to sexual desire. Is to flourish, it is necessary to have an age of about twenty years of age, sometimes earlier.
Sex life Partner takes its beginning with the desire that formed in the brain. In the case of strong sex, it appears to be due to the visual images, a beautiful part of the population is connected with romance and action. To desire arousal appears, then the process starts near, and ends with orgasm. The more serious the Problem, the more difficult the therapy is.
Why disappears the desire in women?
I said, that are divided of the reasons for the lack of Libido in two categories. We will consider the physiological side:
- Crash of the endocrine system. The Libido is responsible for the hormone called testosterone. Today, there is a tendency to its reduction. Of the female part of the population, decreased Libido prolactin due to the influence of the hormone. Lactation in women a loss of Libido occurs.
- Age processes. Loss or weakening of Libido occurs in women in the menopause. In this time the efficiency of the ovaries begins to drop, making estrogen is produced in small quantities. The process is painful due to lack of lubrication. Many stop to have sex life, continue to lead a normal life and be happy.
- Pathological Conditions. These include such conditions as Diabetes, diseases of the organs motschepolowoj the systems, and many others.
- Lifestyle. Nicotine, alcohol, drugs that inhibit the Libido. They act on the nerve endings in the brain, which is responsible for the Libido. In the priority of satisfaction of the above-mentioned habits.
- Muscle contraction of the vagina, which could be painful for both partners. Often the cause of such a condition is to suffer sexual violence.
- Sexual Disease. They often complaints in the area of external intimate organs and the vagina.
The psychological aspect
In women, the desire in connection with the recent heavy migrated situations, such as the unsuccessful first sexual relations, violence, birth of a child is often missing.
Many of the women who were brought up very strictly, and are ashamed to open up to their emotions and the emotions of the Partner. They are afraid of him and seems to be promiscuous, etc. are Often cases in which women after marriage, Sex only in the dark or in the clothing. Lost even the desire, because of hidden resentment towards the former Partner.
At the beginning of the acquaintance and the first time the relationship between the people, there is interest and strong attraction. It promotes the chemical processes in the brain, causing the passion intensified and increased desire. All of this leads to a natural sexual process without the need for an additional activation of the desire.
Problems of personality imposed from the opinion of the society, parents, and other people, but also by psychological injury, on the overlap time, a strong attraction to a particular Partner. But with time, that spark disappears, and the problems come back.
The constant conflicts and disagreements between the husband and wife, the play, in the course of the common life, an important role in the loss of sexual desire. Some people tend to for a long time, the complaints hold that due to the completely disabled sexual attraction.
For a great part of the population, it is important to get compliments, flowers and gifts after the wedding and many years of living together. In the case of women, there is a tremendous need for the development of the emotional part of the relationship to sexual contacts. The men have such a need for Sex seems to have.
Love and Sex have to be in harmony in the relationship If in a few more Plato prevails niche, and spiritual connection, then the Libido goes on the track, and Vice versa.
With the years of trust between people, mutual understanding, but including the intimate life suffers. In their relations with people are at a disadvantage when they wish, can intimacy to stay with someone else, your Partner faithful.
An important role is also played by the physical attraction plays. After marriage, women and men should not stop to care for themselves. You must comply with the hygiene rules to follow on the weight, hairstyle, makeup, clothes, style, skin condition, etc.
In a relationship where don't know what of-view, facial expressions, movements, smell of the partner, no satisfaction. Distinguish specific parts of the DNA, and an attraction between the partners. So, we have the sexually to those personalities, unconventional and unladylike for us the style of clothing and behavior hope, what we like very much. But the interests and views on life between these people are not the same.
Solution
Woman can not always be the absence of desire to understand. The ladies ask a lot of questions about how to bring to the marriage before the divorce. For someone, the best solution would be a visit to a psychologist or sexologist.
Specialist research, study the Problem from all angles, the cause for loss of Libido and find effective way to work around this Problem. This is the usual advice, various technical, therapeutic Manipulation, tnzerisch-motor actions, and much more. The expert defines self, to work what the customer.
The treatment of reduced Libido is a certain degree of complexity. To determine if properly the cause, then a therapy of the disease.
To begin, In any case, it makes sense to live a healthy life style, stop drinking alcohol, sleep and live in a peaceful state of mind. All of these measures aim to improve the hormone levels in a natural way. I even scored excellent results in this respect, therefore, I know what I'm talking about.
A number of useful exercises to perform on the tailbone on the strengthening of the muscles and of the muscles of the small pelvis. It stimulates the arousal by increasing the blood circulation. Also Kegel exercises can be performed daily to achieve this goal.
And finally, I reveal to you a possibility of sexual interest to your Partner in a natural way. You simply need to do only Yoga.
As you know, all of the exercises from the Yoga, accompanied by a deep and conscious breathing. Before bedtime a number of exercises, practice breathing properly, and after, the same abdominal breathing you will use during intimacy, you will be amazed how it works!
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